Ok, ok. You guys are ruthless. I was going to tell you about my love affair with my gay hairstylist today and my wonderful new haircut, but I guess I'll talk about balls instead.
So, we left off with me moving back to NY. When I got there I didn't fit in again. I tried. But, I just wasn't cool. I ended up with a boyfriend (my first serious boyfriend) my junior year. We dated for that year. I ended up not really liking him, but liked the companionship and liked hanging out with HIS friends. We ended up breaking up when he was pressuring me to have sex with him and cheating with someone else because I said no. I wasn't really too upset. Except that I missed hanging out with everyone.
Late my junior year I started hanging out with a new friend. She was fun and we had a good time together. But, she was a bit of a rebel. She'd convince me to ditch school and hang out at her house. Long story short, we ended up dating best friends. She was "experienced" in the sex department, I was not. Even longer story short, I felt the pressure from my boyfriend and from her. I wanted our foursome to continue on our happy ways. Big mistake. I ended up breaking up with my boyfriend, she ended up breaking up with hers.
Ultimately, we ended up hanging out with a "rougher" crowd. We both became friends with this one guy. We would ditch school with him and hang out at her house. Because she was "experienced", a lot of the times they would leave me watching TV and go about their business.
One time her mom came home while we were there. It was awful. She was screaming and yelling. I went home and got punished. Later that night her mom came to our house accusing ME of sleeping with the guy. She found a condom wrapper and the girl, naturally, blamed it on me. I denied it til the cows came home. But, her mom thought that I was the bad influence on her daughter and my parents were fed up with me because I had been acting out recently. To this day, I don't think they believe that it wasn't me.
That was another turning point.
To be continued...
oh what a charming friend! i hope you had a whole crowd of those...not.
Posted by: holly | July 02, 2008 at 03:40 PM
Oh no, I'm so sorry your parents never believed you. That is harsh.
Posted by: Summer | July 02, 2008 at 04:40 PM
Oooo, you have me totally sucked into this story now...MORE MORE!!
Posted by: Laura | July 02, 2008 at 05:43 PM
Are you sure we weren't separated at birth?
Posted by: Piper | July 02, 2008 at 06:23 PM
Wow...Sounds like your "experienced" friend was a real winner! MORE PLEASE!
Posted by: Jamie | July 03, 2008 at 12:55 AM